I hate when people tell me.
"Natural birth is a wonderful thing! You wouldn’t want a c-section. You’re vagina will go back to normal and it’s just better for you."
Hold up right there.
Natural child birth scares me to pieces. I don’t even like thinking about it because I just want to cry. Having a baby come out of my vagina is a terrifying thing to me. Yeah, yeah, it’s natural our bodies are made for it. Excuse me, that shit is scary. In all honesty, I don’t want my vagina to be a giant hole. I won’t be able to enjoy sex and neither will my boyfriend. I don’t care for the “it shouldn’t matter if it is, that’s not important.” Don’t act like sex isn’t important in a relationship. It’s your bonding point and such. Yeah, when you get old as he’ll it’s not that big of a deal but I’m not gona be 70 when I have a baby.
C-sections scare me. But, I would rather have that and be put to sleep because I will have a panic attack and you’d have to knock me out anyway.
Child birth is extremely scary to me. I still want a child, as long as I can be put to sleep and have a c-section.